Well, I get what you mean. As a practical matter, I do personally have the luck of heading into perimenopause at the moment. Lucky me.

I have said in other articles, I am open to getting into a relationship with a guy, provided he is a feminist (such men do exist, I have met a few, one even works with our organization to help women). I sometimes get accused of being a man-hater which couldn't be further from the case. I do tend to cause offense to manflakes though, poor little fellas. Ah well. ;-)